12/13/2025
How do we pray in intercession? Do we give our own instruction to the person for whom we are praying, or do we place their suffering and other need before God as we ask His will be communicated to us, and done for them? One of the greatest snares in intercession is to allow our own sympathy to step between the person requesting prayer, and God. When this happens we are attempting to fill a void that only God is meant and qualified to fill. Our role as an intercessor is to pray for God’s will to be done, and not to lose heart as we do.
“And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart.”
Luke 18:1 ESV
This scripture is the preface to Jesus delivering the ‘parable of the persistent widow.’ He is preparing to teach us that we are to pray fervently over and over again until God answers by taking action according to His will. This is a lesson in being persistent as we petition God to act.
I pray for people every day. As I do so there are those that need prayer for a surgery that is to occur the very next day, and others with a problem that has no such immediate time constraint. For those more open-ended needs, I pray day after day for God to reveal His will to them and to direct the situation to a good conclusion. Sometimes He might instruct me to do something myself, but in the vast number of intercessions I am simply to lift the need of a person up until God deals with that soul as it suffers. More often than not God is working out the solution to a problem as He increases their faith, and this is strictly between Himself and the one who is in need. His lesson for them being much more important than the solution itself.
“Good and upright is the Lord;
therefore he instructs sinners in the way.
He leads the humble in what is right,
and teaches the humble his way.”
Psalm 25:8-9 ESV
As I raised my children they experienced many problems in their lives. Sometimes it was a dire situation of great danger, and I would step in directly, and quickly, to rescue them. A good example would be the young child that was about to ride a bicycle into traffic. However, the great majority of the issues they faced afforded me teaching moments that I could walk them through. In these problems, the lesson itself was of lasting benefit, whereas by solving the situation for them I might have given them immediate and temporary relief, but it would have taught them little or nothing. It is the same with God as He addresses the teachable moments in our lives.
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
Romans 12:2 ESV
When we as intercessors leave our role as God’s advocate, and become the active solver, we are stepping into God’s business; we are attempting to assume His role and are in effect thwarting His will. If we do this we abandon our function as intercessors and become therapists as we attempt to solve the solution ourselves. Our careful part in intercessory prayer is to lead the person into a deeper communion with God by our prayers, and to strengthen their own individual prayers. We may suffer with them, but not in place of those for whom we are praying... yes, we will suffer before God as we seek for Him to act and reveal His will, but we should be doing this because we love them. Paul speaks of this kind of suffering when he writes to the Colossians...
“Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in Christ's afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the church,”
Colossians 1:24 ESV
Paul isn’t saying that he is completing the unfinished suffering of Jesus, but that he is suffering personally as he delivers the gospel. There is a very distinct difference between suffering to reveal God and suffering to be God. This is the dangerous ground that we can find ourselves walking as intercessors; our empathy can lead us into actively taking on the role of God as we attempt to deliver, rather than request, His will in a situation. Certainly, there are those instances when we are asked to become active participants in God’s solution, but these are rare, and come only with much prayer and a direct word from the Lord. Extreme care is required in making this determination. We will receive a clear directive from our Father when he wants us to resolve or respond to something in His stead. Pastor Oswald Chambers speaks to this with these words...
“Our work lies in coming into definite contact with God about everything, and we shirk it by becoming active workers. We do the things that can be tabulated but we will not intercede. Intercession is the one thing that has no snares, because it keeps our relationship with God completely open.” - Oswald Chambers
I was once a student of chemistry, and I learned that there are chemical reactions that can only take place in the presence of a catalyst. Interestingly, these reactions begin because of the catalyst, but in the end everything involved is changed... except the catalyst. It never ceased to amaze me that when all of the smoke and heat had cleared something new had been created, and yet the ingredient that made it all possible remained intact. As intercessors we assume the role of the catalyst; we are used over and over again... yet are not increased or diminished in our capacity to pray.
So, as we intercede in prayer and not action or advice. We should pray for the will of God to become evident, and for Him to move on that will. It is our part to provide a strong and dependable crutch of prayer to the crippled child before us... not to step in as if we were their surgeon. If we pray, and allow God to work, then we will see wonders, but if we step in to give aid to God in our eagerness to help... then we are bound to bring heartache with us.
Prayer:
Father, I thank you for the opportunity to intercede in prayer for your children in need. I thank you for placing me in positions where my prayers reach your ears in fervent request for your will to become action. I thank you Father for bringing me close and blessing me as I witness the moves you moves you make as you act upon the needs of others, and for teaching me lessons of faith by my close association. Abba, you are great and good in all things, and your promise to answer prayer is unquestionable. I know that I should never pray to remind you of your commitment Father, but only of our pressing desire to hear your voice. Teach us Lord through your answer to our prayers. Reveal your wisdom, protection, and provision through the problems we experience every day and increase our faith and righteousness as you lead us to your perfect will, and then the answer to our prayers… an answer that you yourself have prepared for us. We praise you for our suffering Merciful Father, and for the grace you exhibit in the lessons and answers you deliver in their midst. Holy, Holy, Holy, are you our God who never brings calamity upon your children but walks with us through every hardship and struggle we encounter as you reveal yourself there. In every intercession for others we will pray that your will, not ours, be done, and when it comes to fruition we will give you all the honor and glory for it. Praised be your name Holy Father even in your silence as you work.
Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! And let all those who join with you in your will say AMEN!
Rich Forbes