What does our relationship with Jesus look like? Are we His followers, servants, subjects, students, disciples, siblings, companions, or perhaps His joint heirs? Well, depending on where we are in our journey of faith, or the section of the road we find ourselves walking with Him, we can be any, or all, of these things at one time or another. But, there is one part of our relationship that best shows the depth and breadth of our relationship, and that is the friendship we have with Him. Jesus looks upon us as friends, but do we consider ourselves worthy to be friends with Him?

Do we find ourselves to be like Jacob as we wrestle with God in our prayers? Do we confront a terrible situation in our lives and pray as if it were our demanding prayer that would force the hand of the Lord to act? In reality it was not the wrestling that won the blessing for Jacob, and it will not be our forceful petitions that will win a blessing for us either. It will be the humble act of faithfully holding onto God. Are we ready to be battered, bruised, and have our hip put out of place in forceful and demanding prayer, only to find God’s answer comes by yielding everything except our faith in Him?

What problems or challenges are we facing right now in our lives? No matter their severity we are meant to bring them to God through Jesus. It is our nature to think that the trivial issues in life can be a bother to God, and that it would irritate Him if we can’t solve them, or we bring them to Him, but He is not human, and He does not think as we think. The Lord wants us to lean on Him always, and to bring even our most routine problems and needs to Him. Are we embarrassed to repeatedly take our trivial and daily needs before the throne?

How many blessings are we given by our Heavenly Father that aren’t immediately obvious to us? How is it that we receive them without their showing themselves beforehand? So often we are thirsty in some way, and the Lord tells us to begin digging a well, and not only to dig with our hands, or by laboring over a hoe, or a shovel, but to dig with the instruments, and implements, of our faith. In such moments God goes even further by telling us to sing as we labor; not to Him, but to that thing He has told us to do, that will bring forth what will come from Him. We are told to sing to the wells we have been told to dig, and the gifts that God is preparing to give us in our lives?

Do we endure hardship in our lives to bring the message of salvation, of Jesus, to the lost? Is our road to that place where we can have a gospel conversation, or deliver the good news of Christ, fraught with pain, suffering, and challenging trials? We endure such events in our lives because they polish us spiritually, and reveal the stark contrast of our faith as it is compared to the world. Our suffering, like Job’s, and the passion of Jesus, defines our belief, and without the battles we face, there could be no victory in our lives. Are we victorious through our hardships, and tribulation?

Do we only pray, I mean really pray, in times of trouble? In the other times of life, when things are good, and we are happy, or complacent in our lives, what is the nature of our prayers? We pray fervently, and without ceasing when confronted by danger, and reach out to the Lord with all our might in our troubles, but when all is well, or our circumstances are filled with happiness, we find that our prayers become light and airy, and we only pray them as we find a spare moment, or during our appointed times of prayer. Our prayers of thanksgiving seem to be eclipsed by those we pray in the midst of suffering, and anxiousness. Is this how we should pray? Should we only thank him once we get what we want? No, God should be lifted up and glorified in all things, and His joy is meant to be be found in us because of His presence there.

Do we find ourselves financially wealthy, or having many possessions, but despite all of this we are unhappy, or feel empty inside? Do we run at life, and do many wonderful things, but despite all of our efforts remain chained to a longing, or need we can’t explain or fill? These are the symptoms of a hungry soul. We feel this way when we fill our stomachs with food, and our days with nourishing things for our minds, but starve our souls to death. we go about feeding our bodies and minds, but only God can satisfy the longings, and the overwhelming hunger of our soul.

In today’s business world, and in modern life in general, it seems like the mean spirited, the devious, and the scheming people often prosper, and the righteous are relegated to a life of less, but that is only true when we look at the world through the eyes we have borrowed from it. When we see success as the world sees it, and value what the world values, then we find that we are ill-equipped for life within it. Our eyes should be the transformed eyes of Jesus, and our treasure should be eternal… is this how we are gauging our success in life, and view the blessings God gives us as we wait for Him?

When we are deeply troubled our mind is consumed by it, and it seems that all else is put away to make room for those dreadful thoughts. Haven’t we all tossed and turned in our beds at some point? Where was our faith on those nights, and why did we tremble and worry to such s degree that it brought us sleeplessness? Let’s consider Psalm 77 today, and the plea of the psalmist as he asked for God to hold his eyelids open, not so that he could consider the source of his troubles, but so that he could pray, praise, and meditate, even to search diligently for a deeper understanding of God who solves our problems… the one who comforts us, and gives us pleasant and peaceful sleep.

We look at the cup that the Father gave Jesus to drink from, and we can’t begin to understand its bitterness, and depth. We hear Jesus Himself call it a “bitter cup”, and though we see in it the wrath of God, we can’t begin to know how the pain, shame, hatred of men, the foul burden of sin, the full terror and unbridled power of Satan, and yes… the wrath of God too, could possibly join together in one cup to unleash the healing power of redemption that this cup’s distasteful medicine was meant to provide. We can’t see how this foul and “bitter cup” could be transformed into the sweetest cup of them all, the Cup of the New Covenant. We are inclined to see two cups because our sensitivity to Christ’s suffering causes us to wince, and look away from His disfigured body, and in that moment we miss seeing the final miracle, how the “bitter cup” becomes the cup of our salvation… our New Covenant with God.

Have you ever faced a personal life or death situation, or prayed through one in the life of someone near to you? Have you come to a point in a long relationship with a loved one in which you find you have been taking them for granted, and their love for you is about to end because of your complacency? In moments such as these our feelings are suddenly heightened, reignited, reinvigorated, and we cling desperately to life, or to our love for another. Suddenly, in these desperate times, we realize the importance of life, or the depth of a relationship that is teetering on the edge of being lost. As Christian believers, these are situations that draw us closest to God, and in our suffering or despair we find our faith in Him has sprung to life, and reached a crescendo. These moments of suffering cause us to lean on the Lord in ways that might have grown cold in us during the calm and peaceful times when we felt in control of our own destinies.

How long have we been waiting on God? Do we even realize that we have been waiting, or do we simply think that we are living a life subject to our own actions? Are we going to a dead end job every day, or simply living hand to mouth, and not see that the Lord is about to do something wonderful in our lives? So many people wander about, or carry a heavy burden in their heart, feeling lost in the world when in fact they are one step or one day away from God calling their name. Are we one of those that are waiting today, and don’t realize it?

Jesus got into the boat with Simon Peter and told him to pull away from the shore a short distance, then he taught the crowd that had gathered on the shore about the Word of God, but when He had finished teaching this lesson He told Simon to pull into the deep water, and there He not only taught Simon a greater lesson about faith, by miraculously filling two boats with fish, but convinced these men to follow Him. The question we need to ask ourselves this morning is this… are we standing on the shore listening to Jesus teach us about what we are already familiar with, or are we prepared to pull away into deeper water and learn a lesson of faith that will not only amaze us, but frighten us as well?

In communion we consume the flesh and blood of Jesus Christ, and as often as we do so, we are told to remember Him, but what are our remembrances? Do we recall His miraculous birth, the Sermon on the Mount, a particular miracle, his passion, death, resurrection, the moment we first embraced Him, or are our thoughts drawn to His return, and how we will become one with Him just as in marriage we become one flesh with our earthly spouse? Do we recall the thought of this ethereal spiritual reunion, and how He has brought peace to a relationship that was once marred by hostility, and by our rampant pursuit of sin?