08/14/2025
Have you ever stopped to consider that not every misfortune that you face in life is put upon you by Satan? Some are just natural occurrences of living, through which we exercise the lessons of faith we have been taught, but others are the corrections of our Heavenly Father as he chastises us. In this modern era, we have been conditioned to believe that we should reason with our children and are never meant to discipline them beyond that, but is this biblical?
“and ye have forgotten the exhortation which reasoneth with you as with sons, My son, regard not lightly the chastening of the Lord, Nor faint when thou art reproved of him; For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, And scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.”
Hebrews 12:5-6 ASV
We handle God's gifts easily, but when it comes to His correction we are like our own children and don't like the idea of punishment or accountability. The word "No" is one that ruffles our feathers... isn't it? But correction is a part of learning. Sometimes we take the keys to the car from a teenage child to make a point, and sometimes God does certain things to get our attention as well.
“It is for chastening that ye endure; God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father chasteneth not?”
Hebrews 12:7 ASV
I don't recall my parents using this expression, but it was implied in how they administered punishment; most every Baby Boomer has heard it at some point... "This is going to hurt me more than it is you". These words have become cliché, but now, having been a parent myself, and having had to dole out punishment, I find there is great truth in them. No parent likes to discipline their child, but it is nonetheless a necessary part of parenting. Those who neglect it are doing great harm to their prodigy.
“He that spareth his rod hateth his son; But he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.”
Proverbs 13:24 ASV
I am not talking about child abuse this morning, nor spiritual abuse by an out-of-control God, but rather about measured punishment meant to instruct and dissuade. No good parent relishes punishing their children, and God hates to chasten us as well. Both would love for their children to always obey and be good, but life is often learned by our mistakes, and so is holiness.
We correct those we care for. If we didn't love our children, then we would care less about what they did; we would turn them out into the world and let them find their own way. God is no exception because, in fact, He is our example in parenting. This is the difference between a Deist and a true believer in God and Jesus Christ. A Deist believes that God created the universe and then walked away... leaving it to its own devices and spinning towards its own conclusion. This is not God the Father of Jesus Christ, and not the God that instructs His children and corrects them when they stray from the path of righteousness.
“But if ye are without chastening, whereof all have been made partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.”
Hebrews 12:8 ASV
We are not spiritual orphans nor are we bastards. God loves us enough to chasten us when we have strayed from the path of righteousness. He corrects us with a firm but compassionate hand. We are the sons and daughters of the One True God, and He will not forsake us. This is repeated over and over in the Bible let's read three verses in support of this...
“And Jehovah, he it is that doth go before thee; he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed.”
Deuteronomy 31:8 ASV
“Be ye free from the love of money; content with such things as ye have: for himself hath said, I will in no wise fail thee, neither will I in any wise forsake thee.”
Hebrews 13:5 ASV
“teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I commanded you: and lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.”
Matthew 28:20 ASV
So, God loves us, He will not forsake us, and yes... He will chasten us. Not every hardship or suffering is of Satan. Not every illness or calamity that befalls us is of the world. Sometimes, God chastens us as He teaches and loves us. Do we know Him well enough to recognize His hand? Do we stop to look for it when we are facing difficulty or being told no? When at last we look back on our spiritual upbringing will we see the goodness of the rod and acknowledge God’s love in it?
Prayer:
Father, I thank you for loving me enough to chasten me. I thank you for all the lessons you have taught me, but especially when I have strayed in some mighty way and you have brought me back into righteous alignment with your will by administering a firm correction. You have said that you will never forsake me, and father I love you for your faithfulness, but never let me take you for granted or feel that you don't care about the things I do... never let me use your promise of "always" against you.
Jesus, you show us what it means to be a good Son... a good child. We thank you for the way you lived your life, and we ask that you always be with us as we stumble through our attempts at being like you. We thank you for the Holy Spirit and the understanding that He brings us, but especially when it comes to the knowledge of our chastening and how it is administered in love, and why. We thank you for leading us before the Father and calling us heirs and joint heirs, and we thank you for showing us that there is responsibility that comes along with this.
Holy Father, we praise you for never abandoning us, and for never leaving us bastardized or orphaned. You are our Heavenly Father, and in your presence, we are taught, sometimes disciplined, and lovingly completed in righteousness and holiness. Praised be your name always, and in all things may we see your mercy and grace as they overshadow every aspect of our lives, especially the discipline we receive as your children. Father, you teach us that you chastise those you love, and I pray that you love me enough to chastise me… and that I will always be led to repentance through it.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray… Amen!
“Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous and repent.”
Revelation 3:19 ESV
Rich Forbes